Sex in Shanghai
A young English teacher out of
It seems that in addition to the students and young coeds with whom the Shanghai Lothario has dillied his dally, there were also not a few married ladies who, according to our wanna-be Playah, needed a little something more than Chinese men could give. This guy is a real piece of work, let me tell you. Grandma back home must be proud as punch.
But honestly if he’d stopped with just being a cad, he’d probably have been okay. But questioning the masculinity of Chinese males in general…well anyone who is familiar with the machismo and 面子 mianzi of the Chinese male can guess what happened next.
Professor Zhang Jiehai (张结海) at the Shanghai Academy of Social Sciences launched a full-on attack on the lascivious laowai calling on all members of the Chinese net community to smoke out his true identity and to have him booted from the Middle Kingdom for good. (English translation courtesy of ESNW. Original text and comments available on Professor Zhang’s own blog.)
Unfortunately for the peeved prof, being a scumbag is not a deportable offense nor is it responsible to call for some kind of “net lynching.” Unfortunately for the cad, however, the movement seems to have some traction.
Sex in Shanghai put up a spirited defense and he does have his supporters but I have to agree with Professor Zhang that this guy is no good. Professor Zhang is wise to note that standards for English teachers have fallen. (“You have blond hair and blue eyes? Good. You speak only Polish? That’s okay. You’ll look the part. Go and teach. Dziekuje, I got to take a call. John Mark Carr is on line 2 and is looking for work.”) But the near hysterical response I think says more about anxieties in
Professor Zhang writes:
“On one hand, as a scholar and a man, I have relentlessly and directly criticized Chinese men, because I am one of them. On the other hand, I have always been reticent with respect to Chinese women, which included our mothers, wives, sisters and daughters.
But after reading this piece of garbage’s blog today, I must ask these Chinese women, “What is the matter with you?”
I know that many of you don’t understand what it is like outside of
and you don’t realize that there are such pieces of garbage among foreign men. Amongst all this, there is one girl who heard that this piece of garbage mentioned that he has a blog and suspected that he has other girls; so she found this blog through some Internet searches and read how the details of her lovemaking with this foreigner has been told to the public. And she also finds out that the foreigner does not love her. Meanwhile, none of the other women know about this. China
I can understand that some women do this for the money and others do this in order to be able to go overseas. But, our female compatriots, when you make friends with foreigners, please always remember this: Are you willing to be the female star in a pornographic blog?”
Judging by the comments on Professor Zhang’s blog, the story has definitely touched a nerve and it is not too far-fetched to place the scandal in the context of an increasingly assertive sense of nationalism by Chinese both in
That said, women are also of course more than just mere “vessels.” What disturbs me about Professor Zhang’s post is the way he himself seems to think so little of Chinese women. He sets up an almost “Bushian” dichotomy: “You either stick with the local boys or wind up videotaped naked tied to a bed on YouTube.”
Chinese women are not hopeless imbeciles ready to hop into the sack with whomever offers a bit of candy. Many choose to have relationships with men who are not Chinese. This does not make them stupid or 汉奸, it makes them human. (For my own thoughts on the subject see my tongue-in-cheek posting “Yellow Fever.”)
I believe what Professor Zhang might find discomforting is the historical echoes of hypergamy in Chinese marriage. This is a pattern we see throughout Chinese history and it’s one reason why there has always been a market for women in
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